The Night Dad Died

Note: Recently I drove past the hospital where my father had died. I realized that the day was the seventeenth anniversary of his death. My mother, who has yet to recover from the loss of my father, was in the car with me. Thoughts such as these whirled through my mind.

The night Dad was to die,He was hundreds of miles from me away,And so did my childhood then seem.With memories already fading like a dream,We jumped in the car and drove all day,Reaching the night Dad was to die.

The night Dad was dying,I arrived as he was taking life’s last breaths,The one who had seen me take my first.Each of us seeing in the other the pain of the curse,That life is just a gasp, and then comes death,Grieving the night Dad was dying.

The night Dad lay dying,His earthen hand in mine began to yield,When, with sudden grasp, concern for my infant son arose.Later, with tiny hand ’round my finger wrapped, “How,” I pose,“Quickly death follows on birth’s heels,”Pondering the night Dad lay dying.

The night death came to Dad,He struggled to speak his love for me,A body broken the key to a long-closed heart.How his words tore me apart,Bringing forth […]


Children Worshiping God

A Position Paper of the Session of Sycamore Reformed Presbyterian Church

“Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of heaven.” -Matthew 19:14

An increasingly common practice found in the evangelical church is that either prior to the worship service or at some point during it, the children of those assembled are removed to another part of the building to participate in activities separate from the ones in which their parents are engaged. Often deemed “Children’s Church,” “Young People’s Worship,” or simply “Youth Activities,” the children of the congregation are offered fare that is supposed to be “more on their level.” Youth leaders use a wide array of activities, games, visual stimuli and dramatic portrayals to hold the young people’s attention and seek to instruct them in the faith. Often the explanation for this practice is that the children cannot comprehend what is taking place in the worship service, and that the adults need time to be undistracted by children’s needs so they can concentrate on the service. Yet in response to this movement we would raise the following questions: “What is the will of the Lord for the children of the […]


Pornolatry

Modern man thinks he does not worship idols, which only proves that he does. How so?

Consider for a moment the current epidemic of pornography. With the advent of the Internet and personalized computers, the pornography industry, put into check somewhat by the morality movement during the 1980’s that led a few national chains to quit carrying obscene material, has returned with a vengeance. Some of the facts:

Estimates are that as many as 200,000 Americans exhibit addictive behavior to pornography, much like a drug user.
The Justice Department estimates that nine of 10 children between the ages of 8 and 16 have been exposed to pornography online.
Two-thirds of the divorce lawyers attending a 2002 meeting of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers said excessive interest in online porn contributed to more than half of the divorces they handled that year.
The pornography industry in the United States alone is a $10-14 billion enterprise.
One of every seven calls received at Focus on the Family’s Pastoral Care Line regards internet pornography. One survey showed that forty percent of pastors had viewed internet obscenity in the last month.

That pornography is a major problem even in the church cannot be denied. What the church must […]


On Depression

On the Today show recently, actor Tom Cruise, speaking out of the convictions of his Scientology worldview, made headlines for attacking those who use medications such as antidepressants. One of the people he mentioned was actress Brooke Shields, who used the antidepressant Paxil following the birth of her child. Ms. Shields, who has written of her experience in a book I have not read called Down Came the Rain : My Journey Through Postpartum Depression, quickly responded with an editorial in the New York Times defending her use of the medication.

This “Star” Wars interchange cited above of “Cruise” missiles being fired against the “Shields” defense system caught my attention. I have watched a close family member struggle with bouts of severe depression for many years now who has chosen to treat it primarily with drugs and psychiatry. Unlike the way these two have portrayed themselves, I do not pretend to be an expert on this subject. But being a student of God’s Word and also of people, I would just like to offer the following observations about the topic of depression, in the hope it could help you or someone you love.

Depression is a God-given emotion indicating something is drastically […]


Drama in Worship

It’s too bad pastors today are trying to be dramatic and, in doing so, are missing the real drama found at every worship service.

What do I mean?

A common trend in evangelical churches is putting on stage a piece of drama before the congregation in the midst of the worship service. The lights dim. A spotlight shines on center stage. Mood music flows into the sanctuary to build anticipation in the audience as the performers take the stage. Usually then a scene meant to portray a Biblical story or emphasize a spiritual truth is performed to draw the congregation into the theme for that day’s service.

The only problem with this is that in trying to be trendy and dramatic, usually with the design to bring in the numbers, the church is missing the real drama of worship. Again, what do I mean?

The Lord of the Scriptures has given us commands regarding His worship, commandments that could be summarized in this basic statement: “Keep it simple and pure.” As the Apostle Paul told the “always-looking-for-a-good-show” church at Corinth:

“I am afraid, that as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, your minds will be led astray from the simplicity and purity of devotion […]


Under the Sycamore Tree

When the Old Testament prophets wanted to paint a picture of peace and prosperity, they would often use fig trees as imagery of God’s goodness. As Moses sought to instill in Israel the vision of the Promised Land, he said that the Lord was bringing them into a “good land of…fountains and springs, flowing forth in valleys and hills; a land of wheat and barley, of vines and fig trees…” (Deuteronomy 8:7-8). During the days of King Solomon, when Israel was at rest on all sides from her enemies and enjoying great economic prosperity, we read that “Judah and Israel lived in safety, every man under his vine and his fig tree, from Dan even to Beersheba, all the days of Solomon” (I Kings 4:25). Since fig trees produce tasty fruits and have abundant green leaves that provide shade, they were often planted near wells to keep the sun off the water so that it was cool. A man seated under a fig tree eating the fruit above him while enjoying the refreshing water of the well was a picture of a man at peace and rest with God.

The Lord used this imagery to work the other way, though. Later, […]