The Gay Mirage

Warning: Though I have sought to word carefully this post so as not to be explicit, the nature of the subject means certain references are unavoidable.

To my knowledge it was the only time I have been followed in a threatening way.  

More than two decades ago now my wife and I were returning to our car with a few friends after picketing an adult bookstore.  Before the advent of internet pornography, these bookstores were multiplying in the Lafayette area and we joined with others to picket them.  The negative attention drove down their sales.  Some even closed.  On this particular day one in our group noticed that a young man, who had come out of the bookstore, had followed us to our car, gotten into his own vehicle, and was watching us in his rear view mirror across the lot.  Not wanting to have someone follow us home, I went over to speak to him.

Though it was tense at first, some friendly questioning eventually led to this young man opening up to me.  He told me that he worked at the store, was gay, and that in picketing the store for pornography we showed that we did not really know the true essence of what was going on in there.  The store with its holes in the walls between the booths was used for encounters, and he was angry that we were ruining the business and the ability for those in this lifestyle to meet.  Though he had no worked-out plan, he admitted he had planned to follow us home so that he could find a way to harass us.  As I called him to freedom in Christ, his face softened at times and revealed a desire to change; then would harden again as he expressed frustration that he could not.  He promised not to follow us, and he did not.  I have not forgotten the fire in his eyes when he told me that I just did not understand.  His changing countenance that day revealed to me the turmoil within.

Homosexuals have chosen the word "gay," a word that means "happy" or "a lively, merry mood" or "bright, showy," to describe their lifestyle.  In homosexuality's portrayal in the media and in its publicity by its advocates, that's what it can appear to be.  A fun-loving, free lifestyle.  Yet this is only a mirage.  Over the years, in every interaction I have had with a person calling their lifestyle "gay,"  that same angry fire that my bookstore acquaintance had could be seen in their eyes .  Whether it's been a one-time opportunity to interact with someone who has identified himself as gay or the longer-term weekly counseling of a man who claimed hundreds of partners (and looked as if it were true), a below-the-surface, seething anger has always been present.

Those who claim the gay lifestyle, from the protesters at the pool in Kentucky to the advocates of the marriage bill passed in New York, might tell you they are angry because they have been oppressed and denied civil rights.  Though we may grant that the homosexual may be affected negatively by his surroundings, clearly his burning spirit does not originate from there.  Paul describes homosexuals in Romans 1 as men who have "abandoned the natural function and _burned _in their desire for one another."   When one considers what is involved in a person saying that an act of sodomizing or being sodomized makes him happy, then you should not be surprised to find under the surface an edgy, indignant individual.  Going against nature every day is a hard road to travel.   Trying in the desert to satisfy a thirst by pointing continually to an oasis that is not there would, and does, cause irritability.

As government leaders and even other churches flock toward the gay illusion, thankfully the Reformed Presbyterian Church recently passed _unanimously _a work entitled _Contemporary Perspectives on Sexual Orientation: a Theological and Pastoral Analysis.  _Maintaining the historic, orthodox, and Biblical stand against the sin of same sex relationships, this work helps instruct the church how to think properly and minister to those either advocating and/or trapped in this lifestyle.  This paper, soon to be published as a small book and which we will be sure to announce here, should help in dispelling the mirage and showing many where true drink can be found.

Barry York

Barry York

Sinner by Nature - Saved by Grace. Husband of Miriam - Grateful for Privilege. Father of Six - Blessed by God. President of RPTS - Serve with Thankfulness.

Read More